Manifesting is a little tricky, not because the process is complicated but because our mind gets confused by our heart’s desire. And if the mind is weaker than the heart, it ends up following what the heart dictates. This is one reason why we get the opposite of what we tried to manifest. Don’t you realize why the brain is placed over and above the heart? It’s because the mind should be the one in control and not the heart. The heart should follow what the mind dictates and not the other way around. However, most of the time this is easier said than done. One common example is when someone falls in love with somebody who is married, the mind becomes weaker than the heart. Heart wins no matter how elicit when it stops listening to the mind’s reasoning. However, please remember that what makes us happy at the present moment does not necessarily follow that it is what we truly desire. It could be temporary. Unless the mind gets back on track once again and act as the head pushing the heart back to where it should be, we will never realize the absolute happiness we are desiring to have. Going back to our example of falling in love, let me point out that the reason why someone got magnetized with another someone regardless of who that person is, is because he/she has been subconsciously looking for or wanting a partner who is ideal regardless of the status in life. And most likely they have the same vibrations that’s why there’s a match up. The big question is, will the present scenario where both of them are at give them their ultimate happiness? It will not unless they find a way to make the relationship legal in the law of the land and in the law of God. Otherwise, when both of them realize in the end that they got themselves into the wrong relationship, more likely they will part ways. A very saddening and hurting ending.

Do not blame the Manifesting process or the Law of Attraction. The problem lies in how you control your mind. Remember, Manifesting Process is a mind thing which is primary. Emotions (heart) is only secondary and should be supporting the works of the mind at all times. God created heavens and earth through His mind. It will always be a mind thing. When the mind loses control , the heart takes over. You do not want this to happen because you will get nothing or most of the opposite of what you desire to manifest in life.

We have to ensure that what we try to manifest is our true desire and not like the example above which is blinded by temporary insanity. There are so many ways to do that but you can start from the basic question– What will make you happy, not only in short term but in long term? Examine yourself well, and make sure whatever your decision will be that your mind can fight for it no matter how difficult. That way, you will have a clear focus going to just one direction, the bull’s eye. When the mind’s focus is not disrupted, the energy will not scatter making it easier for the Universe to work on your true desire, your absolute and ultimate happiness.